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Hey folks, This is just a quick post to let you know that The Ecumenopolis, the fourth book in the Psychic State series is out! For those of you who aren’t familiar with the series, the Psychic State books are urban fantasy mysteries with polyamorous main characters. From the first book in the series: Fortunetellers.… Read More »The Newest Book in a Polyamorous Urban Fantasy Series Is Out! The post The Newest Book in a Polyamorous Urban Fantasy Series Is Out! appeared first on Poly Land.

I never planned for this spring and summer to be so difficult. But does anyone ever? It isn’t as though people pencil in traumas on their calendars or dutifully schedule major losses. The post Which World Am I In Again? appeared first on Poly Land.

The less time you spend on relationships that shouldn’t happen, the more time you have to discover and explore the ones that should. The post You Shouldn’t Have to Trick Someone Into Dating You appeared first on Poly Land.

Some people need you sick to find you useful and want you around. The post Working On Yourself Is a Thankless Job appeared first on Poly Land.

There was a difference between not being upset and wanting to not be upset. And I had been conflating the two. Aw heck. The post The Difference Between Not Being Upset and Wanting to Not Be Upset appeared first on Poly Land.

Sometimes it seems like it’d be better to go on autopilot. Easier certainly. And a heck of a lot less lonely than questioning the status quo or forcing myself out of my comfort zone. The post It Can Be Lonely to Go Off Autopilot But Worth It appeared first on Poly Land.

Figuring out what romantic relationships and close friendships I want to have has also involved figuring out what aspects of myself I want to feel better about and which ones I want to work on. The post I Find It Easy to Fall for People Who Make Me Feel Better About Myself appeared first on Poly Land.

My mother said once that I have a hard time getting over things because I have a good memory. “If you could only just forget, you’d feel better. Forgetting helps us let go of the pain.” The post How Long Will It Be Until I Forget? appeared first on Poly Land.

“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” -Sam Keen The post Learning to See an Imperfect Person Perfectly appeared first on Poly Land.

It’s tough to stay in the moment and yet plan for the future. The post It’s Tough to Stay in the Moment & Yet Plan for the Future appeared first on Poly Land.