FETISH
SO MANY TO CHOOSE FROM
A
- Abasiophilia - A fetish for mobility aids such as braces, casts or wheelchairs, but it also describes the attraction to people who rely on such aids.
- Acousticophilia - Sexual arousal from specific sounds. Your partner’s voice, perhaps, or if your neighbors are very unlucky, air horns
- Acrophilia - For some, heights induce vertigo. For others, it’s tingly-bits time
- Acucullophilia - A fetish for circumcised penises not just a preference, which is much more common
- Adult baby syndrome - Is a fetish for playing the role of an infant, and it might include wearing diapers or drinking from a baby bottle. In some cases, there’s an overlap with fetishes for masochism and humiliation.
- Agonophilia - When you have a thing for fake violence such as certain role playing situations .. staged rape is a big one
- Agrexophilia - They may not like you watching them having sex but they will sure talk about the details to you
- Allorgasmia One we can all relate to where we have to fantasize about someone else before we can orgasm!
- Alinolagnia - A sexual attraction to the tummy area
- Arsenosadism - Seeing other men suffer, not inflicting it but just watching them endure it
- Axillism - Armpits, part of the body that is looked down upon as a kink, but shouldn’t be is the armpit. Those with an armpit fetish like the smell, taste, or feel of the armpit as a form of foreplay or sexual act.
B
- Ball busting - kicking slapping, squeezing pretty much anything that makes you tear up
- Bastinado -This one goes back to ancient forms of torture, and it’s the act of having the soles of your feet whipped or beaten with a crop or whip
- Bathroom denial - yep you got it, they get to tell you when you can go
- Bathysadism - The sadist that isn't hands on, they like to imagine the pain but won't perform it in real life
- Belonephilia - Very dangerous one, here they have a need to use sharp objects like razors, broken glass and other potentially damaging items
- Biastophilia - This is where you want to just assault someone and you get off on it, doesn't need to even be sexual. People with this fetish are advised to seek professional help
- Blastolagnia - A fetish for adolescent women who like to get dressed up in those school girl outfits or in relationships with barely legal age males
- Bloody Play - Not one that is a very safe fetish, on extracting blood, all kinds of things can go wrong such as hitting a vein or spreading HEP or HIV so make sure you trust the person
- Body Worship - self explanatory, find the spot on the body such as feet and worship it
- Brachioproctism -also known as brachioproctic eroticism - sexual pleasure from hands, fists, arms or objects slowly entering your rectum
- Bondage - BDSM - Everything from the 50 shades to the very dark side of the dungeon
- Bukkake - All males "giving their loads" at the same time over someone enjoying receiving that much adoration
C
- Cage Fetish - A popular one to control, dominate or punish your sub for the purpose of humiliation or pretend torture
- Candaulism - Where a man enjoys showing his naked wife to his servant(s) or voyeurs
- Castration - the idea of having your balls cut off really get's you hot - but its a fantasy not a practice!
- Cock & Ball Torture - Come on don't make us explain this one!
- Catheterophilia - This can be a wider fetish but starts with wanting to put catheters in their urethra or their partners and often leads to other objects
- Claustrophilia - A fetish for actually wanting to be put in a tight space or tight clothing
- Coprophagia - one not everyone can get their head around because it's eating or watching someone eat feces
- Cosplay - Costume role playing
- Cross dressing - loving to dress up as the opposite sex
- Coulrophilia - it's true, some people actually find clowns a turn on, they love all the gimmicks that go with the character too
- Crurophilia - Leg fetish
- Cuckholding - Men love to watch their wives/partners have sex with another
- Cutting - much like anything that involves sharp objects this can be a dangerous game to play
D
- D/s - There is a reason the D is large the s is small, one is dominant the other is submissive who will relinquish all control and power to their Dom
- Daddies - A dominant male who takes care of their "little" someone who plays the role of a little girl or boy
- Death - Yes this is a fetish for those who get turned on by their own, or someone else's demise. Usually harmless but can also be a sign of deep depression
- Dressing for Pleasure - Wearing specific kinky outfits or certain fabrics, many have a "stocking or pantyhose's fetish" for example
- Diaper - Some like to wear them and act babylike for attention, good or bad
- Dollification - Yes your partner actually wants you to look like barbie or "plastic" some even get surgery for it
- Doraphilia - Come on who doesn't get off with soft fur next to their skin, all that fluffy blanket security feeling
- Dysmorphophilia - Just make sure you are loving or being loved for you not the mental or physical impairments you have and not being used just for a fetish
E
- Electrophilia (electrocutophilia) Can be anything from sensational to painfully dangerous as you take those electrical currents as part of your play or stimulations
- Edgeplay - this is where you must trust your partner as they will push you to the very limits or let you push them, keep it safe and consensual
- Ephebophilia - A sexual attraction to teenager's - its still related to pedophilia so seek professional help
- Erotophonophilia - Stay away - this is someone who has a fetish for violent acts of murder and can often involve rape or mutilation! They don't fantasize they actually want to do it, it's been associated with many serial killers
- Exhibitionism - a favorite - that naughty act of sex in public and preferably getting seen by as many as possible - can be anything from flashing to hard core sex acts
F
- Face Sitting - The sexual act whereby a Dominant sits on the face of a Submissive, who is sometimes restrained, forcing the Submissive to perform oral sex and/or anilingus. Sometimes a form of breath control.
- Face Slapping The practice in which a Dominant slaps the face of a Submissive, used for humiliation play.
- Fear Play - Being aroused by being terrified
- Female Masking - A little like cross dressing but the man with use latex or silicone wear and masks to look more like a woman
- Femdom - Female Domination - yes lot's of people like their dom to be female, often high powered men/women like to let go of the control and let the women give the orders out of the boardroom
- Feminisation - Another cross dressing fetish but usually one that's forced, it's usually the submission that excites in this case
- Flagellation - Whipping or Flogging anything from that light stroke to leaving hard core welts and bruises
- Food Play - This is actually a big fetish, it can be anything from someone blindfolding you and feeing you strawberries to using that whole veg tray both externally and internally in varying entrances
- Frotteurism - where two people rub body parts together, could be described dry humping but its still a sexual act
- Furries - Many like to have sex with others acting and dressing as animals, anything from dog collars and chains to big fluffy stuffed animals
- Funtanari - hermaphrodites (those born with male and female body parts) can be a huge turn on to some
G
- Gentrophilia - A sexual attraction to much older people but not in a sugar daddy kind of way
- Glasses - Come on who doesn't like that sexy librarian or professor look
- Goo - Often people just love those slim fights or having gooey substances rubbed all over their skin
- Gymnophilia - We all love naked people but this is more a fetish focused on a nude subject, for instance someone may force you to stand naked in front of them for long periods so they can get off
- Gynecophilia / Gynecomania is an alternative to the much more familiar homo/heterosexual labels: it means sexual attraction to women, and it’s applicable to lesbian women, straight men and bi men and straight women alike. The philia becomes mania if it’s obsessive, something that’s largely limited to straight men whose behavior towards women is inappropriate or extreme
- Gynemimetophilia Is an intense attraction to men who look, act and dress like women, whether they’re trans, non-binary or cross-dressers. It’s not purely a desire for femininity; it’s the combination of a male body and female appearance that gets the motor running
H
- Haptephilia - Intense arousal from being touched but not necessarily sexually
- Hardsports - (scat) sexual activities involving feces and urine- very unhygienic with the risk for many infections
- Harpaxophilia - A desperation to get burglarized or robbed and can often require a rape ending, great for role play but keep it there
- Humiliation & discipline - (HD) covers any amount of degradation from verbal to spankings to being humilitated publicly
- Head Games - Fine for the strong minded but disastrous for fragile minds
- Hematolagnia - A popular one for the vampires but not always the case
- Hirsutophilia - Yep, some people just like their men hairy as can be all over
- Hodophilia - Turned on by unusual places or travel
- Hoplophilia - when you use guns in places they were not designed to go!
- Hybristophilia - All you ladies that like to write to those serial killer types in jail! Often this is a sign of very low self esteem to be attracted to such hardened criminals
- Hygrophilia - A sexual arousal from body fluids such as tears or worse, periods, urine or feces ... none of which are healthy
- Hypersexual disorder Often refered to as a sex addiction. It’s when somebody’s sexual impulses or activities become damaging: repeatedly taking sexual risks; using sex or porn as a way to cope with depression or anxiety; spending too much time thinking about or acting on sexual impulses. It’s not the same as really liking sex: it’s when somebody’s sex drive is out of control
- Hyphephilia - that sexual sensation from touching hair, skin or certain fabrics .. it's all in the touch for some
- Hypoxyphilia A very dangerous game to play - can often lead to death! Otherwise known as auto-erotic asphyxiation. It’s a strangulation or suffocation fetish A milder form of this is known as breath control and it’s practiced in some BDSM relationships
I
- Ice Play - from harmless tingles of an ice cube being run down your skin to being used as a torture method as full immersion into freezing water which can be very dangerous
- Idrophrodisia Not most peoples pleasure but this one is when you are turned on by the smell of sweat, particularly from the genital area
- Iantronudia - Do you get all hot when your doctor has to do a check up - ok this one is for you
- Impregnation - this is not really about having a baby but more so the RISK involved in not using protection .. probably not a smart one to mess about with
- Incest - We all know what this fetish is. If you feel the need to sleep with members that you are related to it's probably time to seek professional help. We can't help who we fall in love with maybe but this can result in terrible genes for inbred offspring
- Infantilism - that need to be treated like a baby and literally be bottle or spoon fed and have your diapers changed, for something that seems non-sexual this can be a huge arousal for some
- Isolation - Some BDSM scenarios will use this in the form of hoods, blindfolds, headphones or caged spaces
J
- Japanese rope bondage - Often described as Shibari or more accurately, Kinbaku, Japanese rope bondage is a type of BDSM where a person is tied with rope, some will see and do this as an art form and others will use it within their sexual practices
K
- Katoptronophilia - The mirror fetish, touching, groping and having sex in front of them, hanging them from the ceiling, basically needing to see you and your partner(s) get it off
- Kinesophilia - this one is when you are getting a little too "wet" on your workout, maybe you get turned on by people watching or just the exhilaration from exercise
- Kleptophilia / Kleptolagnia - kleptophilia is the connection between stealing things and what’s going on in your undies. A kleptophile is a kleptomaniac who gets off on the actual act of stealing: the thrill’s in the theft, not in the item that’s being stolen. That’s not the case for a someone with kleptolagnia, though – that’s when the item being stolen is used for, or imagined being used for, sexual purposes
- Knife Play - Again a dangerous one in the wrong hands of a BDSM person - you must trust a person who has this fetish and make sure everything is consensual
- Knismolagnia - this can be a fun tickle game or a torture of sorts. Largely used by men on men but not always the case
L
- Lace & lacing - anything from harmless lace clothing to a practice of taking corsetry to the extreme, tying a corset extremely tight, much tighter than usual, for the purposes of body modification. Lacing also refers to any style of bondage that involves many fixed points, as to restrain in a lacing design or fashion. The term Lacing may also refer to the uncommon specific type of bondage where a part of the body is affixed to an object by way of a suture; this practice is rare and considered dangerous.
- Lactophilia - Some just can't get the taste of that breast milk out of their minds and still want to observe and play and "be milked"
- Latex - Rubber - Spandex - PVC - Leather - Lingerie
- Who doesn't have a fetish to wear some or all of this great stuff, the shiny is more used by KINK for some many reasons from transformation to smell to touch, BDSM are more into the Leather but there is still a demand for regular lingerie in the mix too
- Lesbophilia - this is not your run of the mill lesbian type situation its more of an abnormal interest in lesbian (not bisexual) sex by a hetrosexual person - it can really be related to the "forbbiden fruit" for some
- Littles - Usually where you have a daddy or Dom that is taking a dominant role and you are taking more of a child like submissive one
M
- Maids - usually back to the Dom/Sub where a partner will get off on punishing the sub for not cleaning or serving well and will often involve dress up
- Maiesiophilia - That sexual kick when you see a pregnant person the turn on can be from the bump to the protruding belly button
- Male Chastity - This did not used to be a fetish but is now used more in cuckold situations or other BDSM dynamics. It involves the dominant partner not allowing their submissive to orgasm without a tremendous amount of edging or teasing.
- Martymachlia - sort of like exhibitionism but instead they enjoy having others watch them often more secretly like from a window or a webcam
- Masking - A fetish for changing your appearance, maybe seeming a lot more dominant in your mask or more seductive
- Medical fetish - this is a big one, often people will get turned on by those doctors and nurses, the hero's that save us all
- Merinthopilia - A fetish for being tied up or restrained
- Metafetishism - You ever get off on introducing new people to sexual activates or experiences they have not yet tried, then this one sums you up
- Mysophilia - Someone who is turned off by filth and soiled underwear - anyone who has had a teen probably will never get this one as a turn on!
N
- Narratophilia - If those porn stories and novels do it for you then this is your fetish
- Nasolingus - Yes, seriously - people like to literally suck everything out of your nose!
- Necrophilia - If you have the desire to sleep with real dead people then it is time to seek a medical professional. We don't kink shame but we draw the line at this one
- Needles - An activity in which needles pierce the upper dermis of a person's skin. Often these needles are placed in elaborate designs, sometimes adorned with ribbon, body paint, feathers, and flowers. Needle play has grown in popularity in recent years. Blood is almost always a part of this sort of play, which is why it is considered edgeplay. See related BLOOD PLAY. The piercings of the needles are not permanent and the items are removed after the play scene.
- Nose Torture - commonly using a nose hook inserted and pulled backwards for the purpose of causing pain
- Nyctophilia - someone who mostly feels aroused by darkness or night
O
- Odaxelagnia is a fetish for being bitten or biting others. Where as odontophilia is a fetish for sex involving teeth - it can go from one extreme of just wanting to rip their panties off with your teeth to literally wanting to extract them!
- Ophidicism - Verges on beastiality for our team as it involves woman wishing to put snakes, reptiles and other such things into them to enjoy the sensation of them sliding or wriggling back out!
- Olfactophilia / Osmolagnia - Getting hot at the smell of others body bits
P
- Phallophilia - this one must be me because I got hot even typing the word - it's for us size queens that love them as large as we can swell them too
- Pecattipilia - A sexual arousal from doing things you think are sinful - I am sure this is popular with religious folks
- Parthenophilia - Only virgins will do - in some cases though this can verge on the pedophilia so beware
- Pantyhose fetish - very common which is strange since its such a unsexy name, but bring on the tights, crochless or not as some like to just tear the crouches out with their teeth while you are still wearing them
- Pyrolagnia - Literally a fire starter but not in good ways as some like to burn down forests and not keep it as a back garden bomfire hobby!
- Pygophilia - the sexual attraction to butts, butts and more butts
Q
- QUEENING A practice in which a Dominant female sits on the face of a Submissive's face, forcing him/her to perform oral sex and/or anilingus. The practice of face-sitting by a female Dominant.
R
- Raptophilia - not a "fun fetish" this usually involved the arousal coming from assaulting someone non consensually.
- Resistance Play - A popular one, usually a little rough play between a bottom and a top where one desires to be overpowered, unlike above this is done consensually
- Retifism - yes, it is close to the foot fetish one but this one is all about the shoes
- Revenge - Ugh this is a dangerous fetish some more than others may love doing or have been a recipient of, Don't do it!
- Robots - Where there is a fetish there is a range of something for everyone, many get off with the more mechanical kinds, it can start with your sex toy draw and work upwards from there
- Role Play and Role Reversal - So fun to act out fantasies in so many ways, too many examples but this can often involve pretending to be "strangers" too
- Rope - Read up on our roping section for more info
S
- Sadism - The tendency to derive pleasure and sexual gratification from inflicting pain, torment, suffering or humiliation on others. Not to be confused with masochism which is to derive the same pleasure from receiving pain and/or humiliation. It should be noted that in the BDSM world, sadism is frowned upon when it is not matched with masochism. In other words, deriving pleasure from inflicting pain should only come from the knowledge that the receiver of such pain is also drawing pleasure from the experience.
- Sadomasochism or S & M or S/M -A psychological tendency or sexual practice characterized by both sadism and masochism; a blanket term for pain play, or anything involving BDSM. The term originates from two authors on the subject: Leopold von Sacher-Masoch and the Marquis de Sade.
- Salirophilia - the desire to want degrade or soil your partner maybe messing up their hair and makeup or just disheveling them with some kind of filth
- Sapiosexuality - This is where you find a huge turn on in intelligent people and conversation, not so much a fetish but it is preferred for some
- Satyriasis - unlike the female or male nymphomania this actually causes real problems for the sufferer as there is a true compulsion for constant sex
- Scarification - Piercings, tattoos or modifying the body, this can run from basic to very extreme methods using chemicals and heat
- Self Bondage - Literally as it sounds they wont wait for someone else to do it they prefer to do it to themselves. It's vital to have functional self release equipment in this cases!
- Sensory Deprivations - when you cut off one sensory system (such as sound or smell) it can really make your other senses heighten so you feel the "touch" better for example
- Semnophilia - Having the need to have sex with people while they sleep is a fine line with consent. Make sure this is pre planned and you are not just "risking it"
- Sissification - A form of feminisation, where men are ‘forced’ to dress in women’s clothes and act in submissive ways to a dominant
- Sitophilia & Sploshing .. Another one that involves food play both internally and externally and not always involving the mouth
- Symorphorphilia - Another dangerous one! These types get their sexual arousal from staging and watching a tragedy such as a car wreck or setting fire to your building while you sleep
T
- Taphephilia - My worst fear personally - this one is being buried alive, some love the feeling of claustrophilia but to me it's as dangerous as it sounds
- Telephonicophilia - We all get unwanted calls but these are more the creepy kind with the heavy breathing
- Thesauromania - The obsessive need to steal women's clothing, "closet trans" may for instance wear or steal their wives clothing without them knowing
- Tickle Fetish - can be used for fun or torture
U
- Urophilia - Sounds nice but its actually just a better name for someone peeing on you, otherwise known as Golden Showers or urolagnia
- Ursusagalmatophilia This fetish is similar to zoophilia. But while that involves live animals, ursusagalmatophilia is a fetish for dressing up as an animal. It’s characteristic of ‘plushies’ and ‘furries
V
- Vampirism - Yes it is a thing! People get off on thinking they are a vampire or wanting to have blood drawn in a vampire manner
- Veil & Velvet - That fetish that brings out more of the gothic or old fashioned side of some, preferring their partners to be veiled or covered in some sense, maybe relatable to burkas, harem veils for example
- Vicarphilia - When you just love to tell or hear about others sexual experiences, this is usually one on one and is popular in swinging or poly couples where they may go have sex with someone else then come back and tell their partners all about it which causes them to get very turned on
- Vincilagnia - Being very turned on by being tied up
- Vomit fetish - ugh let's not go there - and yes there are actually vominatrix's out there that specialize in brining everything out of you! Literally!
- Vorarephilia - another very dangerous and disturbing fetish - in short cannibalism either eating up someone or wanting to be eaten
- Voyeurism - Usually this is when you are not aware of someone getting sexual satisfaction or arousal from watching you but others will use the term when they are knowingly watched
W
- Wet & Messy (WAM) Again involves food and drink and somehow getting very wild and messy with it
- Wet Fetish - Who doesn't like a wet T competition - yep same thing really but involves all clothes and often workwear
X
- Xenophilia Not to be confused with xenophobia .. xenophilia -(which is a dislike or fear of foreigners) while Xenophilia is an intense desire to form a very special kind of union with anyone foreign
Y
- Yeastiality No I am not making it up its a thing! And we hope it stops at just baked goods!
- Yiffing - When two full on furries are doing their sexual thing
Z
- Zoophilia - (beastiality) An unhealthy obsession with animals and sex with them! Again, if you experience this fetish probably time to seek out a health professional
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